FONDLY REMEMBERED
Entire nation brings Aquino to final rest
By Dona Pazzibugan, Kristine L. Alave
Philippine Daily Inquirer
First Posted 01:25:00 08/05/2009
Philippines—One by one, friends, family members, employees of former President Corazon Aquino paid tribute to her through anecdotes, painting a picture of a woman who eschewed the trappings and temptations of her office and who was steadfast in her faith and service to the people.
During the three-hour necrological service at Manila Cathedral Tuesday, 19 people gave their heartfelt tributes, most of them ending up sobbing along with the audience.
Ms Aquino’s four daughters especially the youngest, Kris, openly cried upon hearing the tributes. Her only son Sen. Benigno “Noynoy” Aquino III was able to hold back from sobbing.
The senator spoke last, summarizing previous speakers’ testimonials.
He recounted how his mother insisted on going to Fort Bonifacio during the Marines standoff in February 2006, at the height of the protests against President Gloria Macapagal-Arroyo over allegations that she cheated during the 2004 elections.
The senator said he was opposed to the idea of his mother joining the chaos in Fort Bonifacio, where tanks and heavily armed soldiers were on standby.
But his mother won in the end. Noynoy recalled her saying: “It is my obligation to go there. It is my obligation to prevent bloodshed.”
When he and the former President arrived near the gates of the military camp, they found the people agitated.
“When she arrived, she took out her rosary and started praying. The people calmed down,” the senator said.
He told the crowd at the cathedral that he chose this story because it encapsulated everything about his mother.
“This was the loving Cory, who’s ready to do what is right despite the consequences and who has full faith in God. She believed in doing whatever we can and letting God do the rest,” Noynoy said in Filipino.
Swipe at political mess
The senator took a swipe at the political situation, saying there seemed to be no change in the country. The former President had been a vocal critic of Ms Arroyo.
“When I see the state this country is in—there are people who follow the law, who strive to study to be better, who are true to their fellowmen and are still asking ‘Why are we still in need?’ It hurts,” Noynoy said.
“There are those who fought before us. But we are still here, fighting,” he added.
There’s hope
On behalf of his family, Noynoy thanked the people who gathered in the streets to bid her mother farewell when her casket was transferred on Monday to the cathedral from the La Salle Green Hills stadium in Mandaluyong City.
He apologized to those who were waiting for hours to get a glimpse of the former President’s remains.
The senator said he was struck by how children, who did not see the 1986 EDSA People Power Revolution and her mother’s presidency, expressed gratitude to his late mother.
“These were elementary children. They said ‘Thank You, Tita Cory,’” he said. This is proof that there is still “hope” for the country, according to Aquino’s only son.
Fought good fight
At the end of his speech, the senator said of his mother: “I really truly believed without an iota of doubt that you fought the good fight, finished the course, and undoubtedly kept the faith.”
Former employees and friends of the late President said they were struck by her humility and simplicity, even while she was the leader of the country.
Exceptional leader
Quezon City Mayor Sonny Belmonte, who was appointed by Aquino to head the Government Service Insurance System and other government corporations, said Aquino never asked special treatment for her or for her family.
“I realized I was serving an exceptional leader,” he said.
Aquino’s brother, Jose “Peping” Cojuangco, said his sister forbade her siblings to build businesses or try to recover their wealth seized by the Marcoses while she was President.
Aquino was also adamantly opposed to the idea that she run for another term in 1992, Cojuangco said. When he offered this idea to her, his sister replied: “My role is to restore freedom and democracy. If I turn over it to my successor, then I’ll be playing that role.”
Anger extinguished
Makati Rep. Teddy Boy Locsin, who served as Aquino’s speechwriter, said working for Aquino extinguished his anger and desire for revenge.
When she told him over the phone that she took up Marcos’ challenge for a snap presidential election, Locsin said he realized then that Aquino “was the answer to my prayers.”
Working for the country’s first woman leader brought out the best in him, Locsin said. When he was at her deathbed, he felt like a “knight at the bedside of a dying sovereign.”
“I know I was lucky to have served a woman who never did wrong ... If you bring me before her again, I’ll be happy,” he said.
From ardent critic to fan
Philippine Daily Inquirer columnist Conrado de Quiros said he was not a fan of Aquino—at first. “I wasn’t an ardent fan of Cory. I was an ardent critic of Cory,” he said.
Subsequent encounters with Aquino—which started from a phone call from her expressing her thanks for an article he wrote—changed De Quiros’ mind. He also recounted how the former President visited his mother’s wake and was struck by her loquacious nature and grace.
In Aquino, De Quiros said he remembered the biblical phrase: “The exalted shall be humbled and the humbled exalted.
“In life and in death, Cory has been—pardon my French—one damn good person,” De Quiros said.
Businessman Ramon del Rosario Jr. said the business community was revitalized when Aquino rose to power in 1986.
He noted that one of Aquino’s legacies was her honesty and transparency in governance—traits that the business community should follow.
“There is no greater tribute to her than abiding by her values of integrity, courage, transparency, morality and love of country,” Del Rosario said.
Del Rosario, who was part of the Philippine contingent who went to the United States just a few months after Aquino was inaugurated, recalled the euphoria of the event. “I would say simply, she made us proud of being Filipino again,” he said.
Best friend forever
Aquino’s sister-in-law, Ma. Aurora Lichauco, made the audience chuckle when she said that she considered Aquino her “BFF—best friend forever.”
“I look forward to seeing you again, although I hope not too soon,” she said.
Although the two women were different in temperament—Lichauco said she was outgoing while Aquino was “stoic”—they shared secrets, happiness and difficulties.
In her eulogy, Lichauco recounted how she and Aquino would visit Ninoy at the stockade and share the humiliation of long waits and body searches.
But sometimes, the two of them would just laugh at the “absurdity” of it all, Lichauco said.
Designer Paul Cabral, who was introduced to Aquino by daughter Kris in 2003, said the former President was so down to earth that when she wanted him to make a dress for her, she went to see him.
“There is warmth and kindness in her. What people say about her is true,” he said.
Paintings
The former President gave him gifts for birthdays and special occasions, even giving him one of her paintings.
“While you became a loyal patron, I became an admirer,” Cabral said.
Makati Mayor Jejomar Binay said he lost a confidante in Aquino. He said he would miss her telling him that he was “one of [her] favorite mayors.” Aquino appointed Binay acting mayor of Makati after Edsa I.
Binay said he was indebted and grateful to Aquino when she expressed support for him when he was suspended by the Sandiganbayan in May 2007.
Other speakers
Others who spoke were La Salle president Br. Armin Luistro, her longtime private secretary Margaret Juico, Gina de Venecia, longtime friend Nonie Uy, former Environment Secretary Fulgencio Factoran Jr., Sister Remy Centeno, longtime friend Merceditas Tuason, close-in security Mel Mamaril and Rosalinda Hortaleza.
Manila Cathedral, which could seat 2,000 people, was packed full. Organizers had to add plastic seats to accommodate people.
Well-wishers who lined outside the cathedral for several hours did not complain as they contented themselves watching the necrological services from two huge screens put up on both sides of the cathedral.
